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Ruia Flarity

August 6, 1928 ~ July 13, 2026

Born in: Linden, Texas
Resided in: Linden, Texas

A Celebration of Life honoring Mrs. Ruia Lucinda Flarity, 97, of Linden, Texas, will be held at 3:00 p.m. Tuesday, July 21, 2026, at Shiloh Methodist Church. Burial will follow at Shiloh Cemetery, under the direction of Reeder-Davis Funeral Home in Linden.  There will be a time of visitation with family and friends from 5:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. Monday, July 20, 2026, at the funeral home.

Mrs. Ruia Lucinda Flarity was born on August 6, 1928, in Linden, Texas, to Thomas Andrew McGuffin Leroy and Carrie Ione Graham Leroy. She passed away on July 13, 2026, surrounded by her loving family.

Ruia was a faithful member of Shiloh Methodist Church. Affectionately known as the “Hug Lady” of Linden, she never met a stranger and had a special gift for making everyone she encountered feel loved and welcome. Her warm embraces, kind heart, and caring spirit left a lasting impression on all who knew her.

She enjoyed spending time with her family and friends, especially around the game table. Ruia loved playing Skip-Bo, 42, Uno, Go Fish, and Chinese Checkers, creating countless memories filled with laughter and friendly competition.

She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Oscar Flarity; her daughter, Joy Fisk; her brothers, David Leroy and Tommy Leroy; and her sisters, Doris Moore and Eva Quinn.

Those left to cherish her memory include her daughters, Marty Simonds and her husband, Rick, and Susan Vith; her son, Carl Flarity and his wife, Sherry; her grandchildren, Chad Simonds, Brock Simonds, Dale Vith, Jessica Dunkeson, Tonya Van Houtan, Nathan Van Houtan, Amber Hoffman, and Ryan Flarity; 20  great-grandchildren; her brothers, Bobby Leroy and Don Leroy; her sister, Sue McWhorter; along with numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives, and many dear friends.

Ruia’s legacy of kindness, generosity, and unconditional love will live on in the hearts of all who were blessed to know her.

Services

Celebration of Life: July 21, 2026 3:00 pm

Shiloh Methodist Church
556 County Road 1641
Jefferson, Texas 75657


Visitation: July 20, 2026 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Reeder-Davis Funeral Home - Linden
202 N. Main
Linden, Texas 75563

(903) 756-5211
https://www.reeder-davis.com

Interment:

Shiloh Cemetery
556 County Road 1641
Jefferson, Texas 75657


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  1. Candle 2This truly saddens my family and me. There are few people in this world who could light up a room like she could with a simple smile. … As I was growing up, she and Mr Oscar sat behind us in Shiloh Church, so we were always close to the family. We moved back to Linden 20 years ago and became her neighbor. Everytime we would see her, she would ask where her hug was….. We loved her and are going to miss her.

  2. Candle 5I am saddened by her passing she always had a positive effect on everyone always trying to keep moving and give everyone hugs to brighten the day. I wish that I had spent more time with her when I was little and more time as I got older because she always loved the company of her family.

  3. Candle 5What a lovely lady. Thinking of the family. Prayers for comfort and peace at this difficult time.

  4. Candle 5With our deepest sympathy. We were blessed to have known her. She was such a special lady, a true gem. Sending prayers and love to the family.

  5. Candle 5With deepest Sympathy to her sweet family. She always had a way of making everyone feel happy and loved. She is home now…but will always be remembered and loved ❤️

  6. Candle 2What a beautiful soul Aunt Ruia has and to imagine all the inventions and things she saw in life! To all the family…my heart and prayers are with you. Love you all.

  7. Candle 8Jimmy & Aujon Mangram
    We’re praying for you. May the Lord give you comfort until you meet again
    ♥️🙏🏽♥️

  8. Candle 8Jimmy & Aujon Mangram
    We’re praying for you. May the Lord give you comfort until you meet again
    ♥️🙏🏽♥️

  9. Candle 2She always had a hug, a smile and a good story ready to be told every time I saw her. Nana was an amazing lady.

  10. She left a legacy of love and happiness with everyone she encountered. Her memory will be cherished forever. Prayers for the family💚💚💚


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