Brenda Rainwater

December 20, 1964 ~ March 18, 2020
Brenda Jean Rainwater was born on December 20th, 1964. She passed away on March 17th, 2020, at 11:22 p.m., in Mt. Pleasant, Tx. Brenda lost her battle with cancer, and in the end, she passed peacefully and comfortably surrounded by her loved ones.
Brenda was born in Greenville, Texas, where she lived with her parents until their death, when she was 7 years old. After her parents died, Brenda was raised by her late brother, Obie Ashley, and her sister, Debbie Malone. As a teenager, Brenda moved to Hughes Springs with her sister, Debbie, and brother in law, Keith. Brenda attended Hughes Springs High School, where she was a cheerleader, and an active member of the student body. At age 16, while attending Hughes Springs High School, Brenda met her first love and the father of her children, the late Jeffrey Douglas Rainwater. Brenda and Jeff were married in 1981, at Chapel in The Pines. In 1982 Brenda and Jeff gave birth to their first child, Aaron Kyle Rainwater, and in 1987 gave birth to their second child, Ashley Kay Rainwater. Brenda and Jeff raised their family in Hughes Springs until 1990 when Jeff passed away and they moved to Mt. Pleasant, Tx. Brenda resided in Mt. Pleasant for the next 30 years of her life. During this time Brenda became a neighbor to her best friend and big sister Debbie Malone, with whom she shared the most special sibling bond. Also, during this time Brenda was able to be close to her niece, Amber Helmstetler, who she loved very dearly, and share a close relationship with her brother, Obie Ashley and his family. Additionally, Brenda had a very special relationship with her two children, Ashley and Kyle, who live in the DFW area. In 2016 Brenda became a grandmother for the first time when Kyle had his first child, Lucy. In 2019, Brenda became a grandmother to a second grandchild, Emma. Brenda was exceptionally proud to be a grandmother, and loved her two grandchildren very much. Lastly, in 2016, Brenda met her fiancé Gene. During her final years, Brenda grew to love Gene very much, and Gene never left her side up until her final breath.
Brenda is survived by her two children, Kyle Rainwater of Las Colinas and Ashley Landry of Forney; sister, Debbie Malone of Mt. Pleasant; grandchildren, Lucy and Emma Rainwater of Las Colinas; nieces, Amber Helmstetler of Mt. Vernon, Ginger Stutzman of Greenville; nephews, Brian and Eric Ashley of Greenville; fiancé, Gene Kramp of Mt. Pleasant; daughter-in-law, Gina Rainwater of Las Colinas; mother-in-law, Virginia Rainwater of Marshall; brother- in-law, Keith Malone of Mt. Pleasant; sister-in-law, Delores Ashley of Greenville; and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and many friends.
Brenda was preceded in death by her husband, Jeffrey Douglas Rainwater; father, Arthur Airlene Ashley; mother, Nita Pauline Ashley; brother, Obie Ashley; and father-in-law, David Harold Rainwater.
Funeral services are currently scheduled for Wednesday, March 25th at Reeder Davis Chapel. Burial will follow at Woodlawn Memorial Park under the direction of Reeder-Davis Funeral Home in Hughes Springs.
Given the circumstances of the current Covid-19 outbreak, we ask that if you wish to attend the funeral services, we ask that you reach out to one of the family members, as we will be limited in capacity, and wish to stay within the guidelines put forth by the State of Texas. As things change, we will update the announcement.
Brenda, so sad to see you go and you will be sorely missed. I still carry in my heart memories of you when we were young. The best Summers I had was spent with you. All the exploring we would do at Aunt Jean's. And building our version of a camp fire on the cliffs. And the crazy way you would say Obabbar snuskeeter duck plucker. We both shared a love for horses and music. Preferably KC and the Sunshine band. Loved how unfiltered you were and sometimes got us both in trouble. Lol. Thank you for being such a huge part of my life. That still influences even today. Love you cuz.
I am so sorry to hear about Brenda. We went to high school together and were cheerleaders together. We were not in contact much these last 30 something years. But the few times I did see her, it was always so much fun! I always remember her laugh and wonderful smile. She had the best personality! I know she will be greatly missed! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Prayers
We had some fun times. Girl you are missed Love you DeLana
Dear Ashley and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you all. May you find peace and comfort knowing that your Mom is no longer suffering and is with the Lord.
With our love and respect.
Brenda, I am sorry I didn't know you had cancer. I want to thank you for the visits to the hospital while I was fighting cancer that has been ten years ago now. Thank you for the phone calls I hate it this is how I had to tell you ThankYou. God took a beautiful lady from the earth and now has a beautiful angel by his side. You will be missed.
I'm sending prayers for all the family. I knew Brenda as a beautiful, then apparently care-free and thoroughly delightful young teen-ager. She brought smiles to everyone around her. I'm so very saddened to hear of her awful illness and death at such a young age. Rest in peace, Precious Brenda! With love, Betsy Schindler
Dear Ashley, Kyle & Families,
Our heartfelt sympathies reach out across the miles to you during this difficult time! Our prayers are lifted up for you all to be comforted and receive the loving peace that comes from Our Savior Jesus Christ. May Brenda Rest In Peace! Love, Sharon & Fred
I'm sorry about her passing. I never meet Brenda in person, we were friends on Facebook for a long time. She could always make me smile even when I didn't want to. She always put me n my place weather I was rite or wrong n thats what i loved about her, n the fact she was a COWBOYS fan like me. I will miss our talks n ur words of encouragement. Rest in peace my friend and keep that smile on ur face,it was contagious ?
My Dear Brenda, words seem inadequate to express the sadness I feel. You left me with precious memories I will always cherish forever. I know your in a better place now without illness & pain. Rest in piece my dear friend. I will miss you dearly.
Brenda grew to be a great friend on Facebook. Always joyful and funny. Always looked for her posts to brighten my day and unlike most she always replied back. I fill an empty spot in my stomach and heart. She will be greatly missed. One day we shall all gather and I'll meet you. My sweet sister rest in peace. 🍀🍀🍀
Brenda will be greatly missed. I'm thankful for the opportunity to get to know her and her beautiful soul. You all will remain in my prayers!
Though we never met face to face, we became good friends on Facebook. She will be missed
My Dear Brenda, words seem inadequate to express the sadness I feel. You left me with precious memories I will always cherish forever. I know your in a better place now without illness & pain. Rest in piece my dear friend. I will miss you dearly.
Rest High Brenda. Love you cousin. Your smile will always be remembered, and your caring spirit touched many lives. You were special to me because we both are short. Love you. God bless you family real good.
2 years ago, I met Brenda at a Darrin Morris Show at Leon's Steakhouse in Longview. Brenda was a very down to earth loveable lady. She was a firecracker with a full of energy. I'm gonna miss her sweet fun personality. I'm gonna miss her saying "BAM". My thoughts and prayers are with Gene and her family during this tragic loss
Such a Beautiful soul and a strong Warrior who never gave up her Battle. Brenda was fighting up to the very end. I never had the pleasure of meeting Brenda and yet we belonged to a club no one wants to be in ..we had a few chats and Prayers. Brenda fought with the courage and heart of a lion .. Gods speed, well done Brenda ..Prayers and sincere condolences to Gene and the family and all her friends ..
Surrounded by seven younger brothers I never knew what it was like to have a sister. I know that you will miss her terribly and I always enjoyed seeing her at the meetings. Claim to the resurrection and see what Jehovah has in store. We love you.
To Debbie and family, we'll miss our dear Brenda for sure. There's consolation in knowing she's in no more pain or suffering. Thanks to our loving God Jehovah that we have to hope of the resurrection to a paradise earth.
I know she is in no more pain. She is the bright light in the sky.
I will see you one day again.
God Bless You Beautiful Angel,may God Bless your Family.